Every couple on earth has some form of power struggle, as there are many different facets of a relationship. For example, there may be struggles (disagreements) about money, how to raise kids, occupation choices of each mate, family relationships, friend relationships, hobbies, work habits, sex, and many more.

The key to maintaining a happy, long-term relationship is true communication. I know that can be difficult sometimes because it can be tough to talk about things that bother you, and because you do not want to upset your mate. But, it is mandatory to tell your mate what bothers you; if you don’t, the problem may never go away. Again, true communication is an important key in having a wonderful and happy long-term relationship.

Sometimes it might be best to write down the things that bother you and then give this written communication to your mate. Another huge key is to not get “angry” about things that bother you. When anyone gets “angry” they lose control of logic and reason. You must have a completely open mind about any differences of opinion in a relationship. Your partner may be looking at the problem you have from a completely different perspective. Again, use logic and reason and be open to understand your partner’s viewpoint.

When I am with my key people in business, I always ask their opinions about important decisions. I hate “yes people” that only mirror my opinions. I want intelligent people around me that voice their opinions. Many times their opinions are more logical than mine. I feel very secure in who I am, so if their opinions about something significant is better than mine, I will do it their way in a second.

If your mate is not open-minded at all, then you have a serious long-term problem. You either have to live with that fact and deal with it, or leave.

Most of the “Power Struggles” a couple has is really due to poor “true communication.”

Please remember, “You Can Do Almost Anything In The World That You Want To Do — IF — You Want To Do It Bad Enough.” That word “IF” is a huge word.

“Yes, You Can Do It!”

 
Good luck, my friends, good luck.

Bill J. Rogers
www.yesyoucandoitclub.com
www.billrogerspresents.com

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Your previous choices in life make you who you are today!!!

Think about that… How old were you when you made your first independent choice in life…six years old?

You may have chosen which friends you made at the time.  “You become like those with whom you mingle.” Your choice of friends all your life has a huge impact on who you are today.

How about your choice of a career?  Your career has an enormous effect on what you are doing in life right now and who you associate with daily.  You made that decision or at least you should have.

How about your choice of mate?  The right mate can help you in many ways to achieve many of your goals in life.  The wrong mate… You know!

We all are presented with many choices every single day and those choices determine who we are.  Because we can choose, we can begin again at any time.  It’s a matter of personal choice!

So are you totally happy with your life today or should you make some new choices that might even be difficult?  It’s up to you.  You must decide…  It’s your life and you can make it into what you want it to be.  You can’t blame anyone but yourself about where you are with your life.  It has been an accumulation of all the choices and decisions you have made thus far.  So, fix it!

And yes, you can have any kind of life you want.  The choice IS up to you, but you have to make it all happen.  “Winners MAKE things happen and losers LET things happen.”

How about telling me just how you feel about “choices” by returning a comment on this posting?

Yes You Can Do It, my friends!

I know you can!

Good Luck, My Friends, Good Luck

Bill Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com
www.billrogerspresents.com

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It’s not easy, but everyone can control their mind more than they think they can.

For example, I have had amazing success in controlling physical pain with my mind. About five years ago the muscles in both of my legs starting hurting me so bad that I went to the emergency room of a hospital on three different occasions, complaining about the pain in different muscles of each leg. Thank God, the third time I went to the hospital the doctor told me that he did not think that I had any problems with any muscles in my legs. He told me that he thought I had back problems. I found that hard to believe since my back never hurt me, but I agreed to have some back x-rays. He was right. The x-rays showed that the two lower vertebrae in my back were completely crushed, as was the sciatic nerve between those two vertebrae. The sciatic nerve controls the nerves in your legs.

Soon the pain moved to my lower back and became increasingly severe. After about one month I used crutches to walk and on two occasions I was in a wheel chair. My new back surgeon told me that I had no choice but to have back surgery. I have heard horror stories about people that have had back surgery… many times back surgery can make your back worse. However, I agreed to have back surgery within the next two months. I went back for another MRI about one month later. I walked out of that hospital that day, using my crutches, and started up this ramp to go to my car that was on the second floor.

I stopped about halfway up that ramp and told myself that I was going to “refuse” to accept this pain. I threw away my crutches and forced myself to walk up that ramp to my car. I kept telling myself over and over again “I feel no pain.” When I felt pain I would force my mind to think of something else that was positive. I refused to think about the pain. I kept going through this mental process many, many times every day. My overall pain kept decreasing everyday.

About three weeks after throwing aside my crutches I visited my back surgeon again. The nurse put me in a small waiting room and told me that the doctor would be in soon. I kept walking around that room with very little pain and obviously without my “lost” crutches. Finally the doctor came in the room and saw me walking around with little or no pain. He was shocked and asked me how I could walk that well without my crutches. I told him my story. He then told me a story: he said he had been studying research on people that could control pain with their minds. He also told me that Harvard Medical School in Boston had spent the past two years studying people that could control pain with their mind. He knew it was possible although I was his first patient who could do it. He then told me to continue my mental exercises and to call him periodically to let him know how I was doing. We both agreed to cancel my back operation.

I continued my own “mental therapy.” I forced my mind to think about something else every time I felt pain. I did this 50 to 100 times every day, and about three months later I felt no pain what so ever. I have not felt any pain in my back since then.

I use an analogy in describing what happened. For example, let’s say that you were driving on a freeway and had a horrific car accident and you broke your back. You would be in excruciating pain. Then let’s say that an ambulance picked you up and rushed you to the hospital along that same freeway. Let’s say that about two miles up that freeway there was another horrific accident with about fifteen cars involved. Some cars were on fire and you could hear children screaming in agony all around you. Your ambulance barely missed being involved in the accident, but ended up in the middle of the wreck. You are lying on a stretcher in the back of this ambulance and you hear these poor children screaming. Guess what? For the next thirty minutes or so your mind would be on those children. You had inadvertently gotten your mind to move from your pain to their pain. “You had personally felt no back pain at all during that period of time.” So if your mind is thinking about something else, you will feel “no pain.”

My concept about forcing your mind to think of something else when pain arises really works!

I have lectured at the Houston, Texas chapter of the “American Chronic Pain Association.” About 50% of the members that have heard me lecture about “mind control over pain” have sent me emails or called me thanking me for my concept and lecture; they told me that each one of them had some degree of success in eliminating up to 100% of their chronic pain.

One of my quotes is “you can do almost anything in the world that you want to do — if — you want to do it bad enough.” Another one is “it’s better to have swung the bat and missed than sit in the stands and watch the game.”

It also works when you have mental pain. Let’s assume a very good friend or your mate or anyone close to you does something that really hurts you mentally and emotionally. Force your mind to think of something else, and in time that pain will also leave you.

I am not saying that my concept of mind control is easy because it is not, but you can do it my friends, I know you can!!!

 
Good luck, my friends, good luck.

Bill J. Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com
 

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How to reach goals beyond what your current goals are now.

First, you must have a passion for whatever your goals are. The only way to reach the state of incredible happiness is to absolutely “LOVE” what you are doing. If you are not “in love” with what your current goals are, then change your goals. I feel sorry for people that have jobs they hate or barely tolerate. What a miserable life they are living. Those are the type of people that can’t wait to retire so they can finally do things everyday that they enjoy doing. I will “retire” when I am below ground. I love what I do everyday: my business, loving my fiancée, enjoying interacting with my friends, communicating with my wonderful kids and total family, etc. I do not deal with negative things in life. If I am watching TV and some negative news item comes up, I change channels. So you may have to “change channels” in every part of your life if that’s what it takes to make you happy.

Happy, positive people reach goals “beyond” normal. So if you want to achieve ultimate success in all phases of life, change your life, change your goals. You Can Do It, my friends, I know you can.

Good luck, my friends, good luck.

Bill J. Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com

“When I’m around her
            I’m in Utopia
                        The perfect world….

The sun is shining bright and
            There’s a songbird at every window….

My heart and soul
            is in the highest of heaven….

There’s no question
            These feelings
                        will last forever….

Together we will conquer
            Everything in the world….

There will be nothing but happiness
            In my life – forever
                       I’m In Love”….

And it multiplies when you know for sure that your mate also loves you “with all their heart.”

I have found my perfect mate and I hope all of you experience these “off the map” incredible love feelings just once in your lifetime!

Good luck, my friends, good luck.

Bill J. Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com

Sales are everything! You can have the best product or service in the world, but if you don’t or can’t sell it, you will go broke. So marketing is a huge key in becoming a successful entrepreneur. If you do not feel you are good at marketing, then bring in a partner or hire someone that is good at marketing. There are many other important keys to becoming a successful entrepreneur. Start out small; take baby steps. The more success you have the more confidence you will have in yourself. Confidence grows in people based upon continued success in achieving their goals.

You can do it, my friends!
I know you can!

Good luck, my friends, good luck!

Bill J. Rogers

Tell someone you miss them
      Tell someone they look great
            Tell someone they are very important to you….

The key is to tell someone
      They can’t read your mind….

You can do it my friends!
I know you can…

Good luck, my friends, good luck.

Bill J. Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com

So always tell people verbally that you are sorry when you do or say something that you realize later was a mistake on your part.

Strong and weak people will think you are really honest and strong for saying it. You will gain even more respect from anyone when you actually say, “I’m sorry”.

You can do it!
I know you can!!!

Good luck, my friends, good luck.

Bill J. Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com

I try to learn from my past mistakes and try not to make those same mistakes again. But, I don’t dwell on them. I never ever sit around and tell myself that if I had done “x” different in my past then my life would have changed to some “heaven on earth” situation currently. No, yesterday is over!!!

The only part of our lives we have any control over is today and tomorrow. Spend all your time thinking about your plan for today and tomorrow. Always have a written plan to follow for any part of your life. If Plan A fails then go to Plan B, etc. Stay positive and have passion for everything you really want to achieve in life.

Yes you can do it!
I know you can!!!

Good luck, my friends, good luck!

Bill J. Rogers

www.yesyoucandoitclub.com